Hey Txmom, even though your children are so much younger (and you too!), this happened to us the same time. I know how you feel. We feel we need an explanation. There is no explanation--they are whacked out right now and that is it. Don't ask H if he is going to marry her -- H thinks he is going to marry her. The R is too new and still very exciting. But in the future it will start to unravel even if we decide we want to be done. That is because while we are making all kinds of changs and GAL -- guess what it is the same old H but just making the same mistakes with a new woman. It will get old quick
Amy, Someone told me the same thing about taking time to listen to God. I am trying and most of the times it is my own thoughts and plans clogging up my brain and heart. I am working on it. TxMom I know we backslide but we are human, so we need to pick ourselves up and keep trying. That marriag is dead -- I never want to go back to it. What I want is same H but the way our marriage should be and surrounded by God's plan.
take care.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
