It just irks me because its from my sister of all people. She's never been married and literally clings to every guy she meets. She planned to marry the last 4 guys she was with...until they kicked her to the curb. And its just how she says it.... like she knows what shes talking about. My sis, we think, is bipolar too and she's always flirted with my H. She blames me for all of the demise of my M....nothing is on H at all.