It's okay, Karen! Sounds like you gave it a try and it involved a significant amount of time on tasks they didn't mention and that you don't have expertise with. Move on to the next possibility.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012