So, Tom, I'm getting caught up. As you know, I've been in my own little tailspin lately, so apologies for not being around as much.
What I predict, and I course could be wrong, is that...she will make a show of wanting custody..because her entire life is built on being fake and projecting and mirroring...but she really doesn't want it. So she'll say a LOT of sh!t about that, and might make some actions..but in the end she really doesn't want custody of those kids.
I agree with you on the BPD stuff...and it is what it is. Emotional vampires. Nothing inside. I have some similar "lack of empathy" issues at home, not to that kind of degree of course...and mine wrap into the passive-aggressive stuff. I'll save that for my thread.
And as everyone else has noted...you are an awesome guy dealt a really rough hand. You are doing great!!
