John, you are cracking me up today! I would LOVE for my H to "do work" and the fact that he really hasn't is what triggers my little meltdowns. I start to get really pi$$ed that I am trying to row the boat myself but he is the one who mostly got us off course....
But after raging at him and the world for a bit I realize I have just gotten myself further off the track...at this point getting pi$$ed at my H is not going to help us reconcile. So I have to rein in my frustration/anger at this point.
Sorry to hijack Kalni....
I hope you are about through with work and ready to relax...I am glad to see the steps you are taking even though you are afraid.
I will need to 'pick your brain' more....my H just told me Monday he is "so scared to try AND so scared NOT to try"....as a "scared" person, what can your H to to lessen your fears, if anything??
