Thanks Diane, I know what you mean about trying to think about a year from now. The thing I found out today was no question was asked to her Dr. about the pain \:\( Her reason was she was way too embarrassed to ask about that (woman Dr. BTW). At least she was honest about it with me. She wants to just try lubing consistently and see how that goes first.

I'm going to start taking daily walks. I can tell my lack of activity is messing with the way I am feeling too.

CB - Wow... You are active! I like the idea of trying to get her interested in the local pol scene. We vote and that's about it. If we had been more active, we might still have our incumbent rep to our state house instead of the dem that got elected. It was a pretty close race too.

Still to be depressed over something like that to the point of affecting your M and family? It would be cool if I could switch her over to a sex talk show instead....Hmmmm

I gave her 5 Love Languages to read now. And BIG NEWS.... a quicky favor just for me happened last night! Maybe there is hope after all.

~5