I think these MLCers get to a point and wonder if what they are seeing (us loving unconditionally, etc.) is the real deal, and it scares them to some degree.
But I do know it comforts my h to hear that I still love him unconditionally. Also, to tell him I am praying for him has also been something he is thankful for.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19