Upside I see you where I was about 4-6 months ago. I do know that as they reconnect more and more you find more patience and understanding along the way.
It makes the stance easier and more tolerant when you see progress and they are trying.
Your h is trying. Give him that credit. Maybe not like you would like, but he hasn't given up.
It didn't take days for your m to get this way, so it won't take days to repair.
Nobody would question if you gave up, but you are so close Upside. Could you find it deep inside you on giving your h some more patience.
Your h could just be around that corner. Hang in there, you do have amazing positives going on!
Hugs!
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"