john210.. no offense taken.. sometimes you have to ask questions.
Most of the time.. people will find me hard to understand. Usually my words are directed at the poster. Imagine.. walking up on a conversation. You can get the general idea of what they are talking about.. but you may not know everything.
"Work" is subjective. It has many meanings. The main reason I push on someone here (DB.com) is quite simply.. they are the only one I can push on. Trust me.. if I could post to the other side.. or grab their ear.. I would. In just creating and making a post here (DB.com) you open yourself up to get "hammered" on. Kalni was one of those people that asked me to come take a look at her stitch. I came by and read.. and really did not want to post to her.. everyone was being so nice. She told me not to hold back on her. So I didn't. She is still telling me not to hold back.. so I am not. Its never done with the intention of being mean. Just imagine me pulling.. or pushing. The goal is the same.. get you to a better place. If I gotta drag you kicking and screaming.. I will.
I know I come across as a Mr. Knowitall.. or condescending. But it seems to work. At the very least.. it gets people talking.
So...
"When the (expletive) does the (expletive + en) WAS do some (expletive + en) WORK?"
When they make a statement.. like Kalni's H has. When they show actions.. like Kalni's H has.
I will assure you.. he has no idea.. how hard he is gonna have to work. The only way I can talk to him.. is thru Maria.. and what her actions and words say. She has to take the lead.. even if just a little bit.. so he has some clue where to go.
Kalni and her axH got here together.. I gotta assume.. the only way to move forward.. is to do it together.
Like they say around here.. It's hard to drop the rope.. sometimes.. its even harder to pick it back up.
The first time I read this... "nice,ities!"
I read it as nice tittys
So onward we go...
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
