Don't talk to him about the D, especially with emotions as raw as they are now. Let the L's handle it. Ask him to communicate requests to you through them. Don't let him use your emotions, integrity, and sense of decency as a way to manipulate an agreement with him -- especially since he clearly no longer shares those traits with you.
Me45 W35 M6 T8 D16 SD11 D0 Dec 07: Bomb July 08: Busted! Thread