I don't think asking for £20k now against a £220k house is much IMO, just trying to find out from solicitors his opinion of how that would be seen in a court tho. Don't really want to go through that if he advisers there's no point as I won't win but I can't see it. I need a place at some point, can rent for a bit, but want a place my kids can call home if staying with me 3 times a week and for that I will need a deposit.
W is just batchitt crazy and has some serious fog in front of her as to what being reasonable and thinking of the boys means. Doesn't help when it seems all her current posse of 'friends' and her soliciotr are god and can therefore change the weather and thicken that fog whenever she talks to them !!!