Have you ever read the book Surviving An Affair By Dr. Willard Harley? It has a great case in it that he runs through the book that has the wife as the betraying spouse. This book is amazing and has a great deal of information on the infidelity. I really would consider getting it if you haven't and it also deals with no contact as well. I highly recommend you get this as soon as possible if you plan to do a period of no contact there are some things in the book that will show you how to get to that point. By the way I don't always view a hole lot of posts you can find me at Trying2live #3, but I'll try to remember to find your.
Me-38 H-38 Married 18years Daughter-17 & Son-9 Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08 Left home 5/08/08 Moved in with OW 08/01/08
The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family. -- Lee Iacocca