From your second to last post....you KNOW what you need to do. This woman just doesn't come with a small overnight bag of baggage, she has an entire moving van full of it. You are NEVR going to sort that one out. The STD is just an added incentive! Don't push a R you aren't sure of. Your a young guy with LOTS of time to heal and wait for someone without three failed marriages. It's easier for us on the outside, but c'mon, man!
