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I am glad you told your D's like you did.


I know myself, and I would have been a complete wreck had I told them anytime sooner. But see, our lives are crazy. xH and I are both federal law enforcement officers, and our schedules are insane, us both being on call, working odd hours (you should see our custody agreement, it basically says "Parents will work out on a daily basis" lol). So, the girls are used to just being with one of us, being shuffled a bit, last minute changes.

Our crazy schedules were the ONLY reason we could keep the divorce from them for this long. In any other case, the kids are going to have to find out immediately.

Journaling:

xH has not stayed here in over a week. Its amazing. It feels so good to have the space from him, I can't even tell you. I heard a 'bump' in the night a few nights back, and it was the first time I was scared, being in the house alone. But I know (hope!) Mama Bear would do all I could to protect the girls by myself if the bump turned out to be human.

2 whole days off with D6! I am in heaven!!! \:\)

Putting in for a day position at the office. Fingers crossed!!!