Hey man, I know exactly how you feel right now, and to be honest.....that is a decision that YOU have to make.
To stand or to fall....it is your choice. Nobody can do that for you. But help will always be here for you either way.
DB'ing isn't about saving your marriage.....it's about saving yourself, and you need to do that so you can see the light from both sides before you affect the lives of other people.
You have to be the adult there for your children, and when your head is clogged.....you cannot be that rock for them. There are things out there.....things that you are not aware of on the other side.....the dark side so to speak..Things to help you see clearly. I'm not pushing you, but the signs are there if you follow them.
Maybe you should think about it....You have to be the memory today,,,that you want your children to have tomorrow.
So what if she is having a PA....will it change your interactions with the kiddies? Are they really getting a piece of her soul....or are they just getting her body for a short time?
Think about it.......I'm here for you.........Trapt
