I have been around here almost as long as you have... I think. I still do not understand all that you write, however, that is probably more a lack of knowledge of the english language on my part (or I am just plain dumb) than your writing style. Having said this (sorry for the hijack K), I don't know why your "Do Work" line worked me up this morning. My question is the folowing; When the (expletive) does the (expletive + en) WAS do some (expletive + en) WORK? I for one worked my tail off....and quite honestly I don't think my WAW with her mind elsewhere or whatever nice connotation we like to put to their state of mind put 10% of the effort that I did. So good for Kalni...make HIM work to win you back....sure, direct him in the general direction but let him do the (expletive + EN) work. Take a vacation damn it, you earned it! Hey Gypsy is that mad enough.....by the way Forrest I am in no way directing any of this on you.....just venting a little. my apologies in advance if I offended anybody....i think my coffee was a tad strong this morning.