Short story, W been unhappy for over a year, tried counseling etc, finally asked to be sep in July, been sleeping on the couch since then. Multiple attempts to turn things around have failed (DBing, ask to go back to MC, etc.) and we are now in the middle of medidation. W is going to courthouse tomorrow to file. I have an application in to rent a house and move out in Jan. D should be final in Jan. The day to day is tough living in the same home. She has begun acting very nasty to me lately and things are very tense. We spend as little time around each other as possible. While I am still mourning the loss of my M, I am looking forward to starting a new life without this constant negative influence in my life and hope that by physically seperating, we can work on building a new co-parenting relationship for the sake of our 3 kids.
All for now!
Married 6 years D4 D4 S2 seperated: 7/15/08 Dbomb: 9/21/08 status: seperated in same home, meeting with mediator moving toward D current thread
