I have arranged to go away for the weekend. I booked a hair appointment and I might do something different. in 2 weeks I go to Aussie for a shopping weekend.
It's great you can get away and it's good you're taking some steps to put up some of your own boundaries. I keep forgetting you live on the other side of the ditch. Hope the shopping trip is good for you.
Just keep DBing! Work on yourself and actively try to not get emotionally "hooked" by things he does. He's going through what he is going through. You're going through what you're going through. Watch out for yourself. It's really just that simple...for now.
I did a bit of retail therapy when I visited relatives in NYC. Wow, that felt good. Just don't max your credit card out like I did! HAHA!
Last edited by Esky94; 11/06/0801:13 PM.
H42 W36 M9 yrs D8 D5 d-day: 21/11/07 S and moved out: 22/2/08 Still S: 22/11/10
