BeingMe, I totally agree I have to admit I do still feel sorry for the total idiot, he is losing hands down, the main he as lost is his son, but he took the choice and wasnt forced there, it is an awful feeling that he has created all this mess and for such an awful piece of work, his choice he will have to live with the choices he made. poor man. anyhow on a lighter note, sons bank accounts did appear and are all sorted so neither of them can get their hands on what is rightfully son's, wonder if she knew ex could have accessed the money if it would have still been there, we may never know but at least it is safe now, and thank god it never got touched, but you see even down to that, one of them has been in the banks and changed the address to theirs instead of sons since we have been left, ex couldnt even call or text and let me know this had happened, he must either really hate me or is so full of guilt and shame cant face talking to me whether it to do with son or not. we will continue to watch the show,