the mlc files--I want to believe

[hoosiermama]

Right now, H blames me for everything bad in his life. I think he will continue to do so unless he does work and comes through the tunnel a grown-up. It's so much easier to do that than to look inside and see what might need attention. He's always looked outside himself for happiness--and for blame.

And BeingMe, I wish that were the case, but I'm afraid I'll have to deal with him until D is grown. And his family--figuring out how to deal with them without dealing with them!!