Hmm. I guess what I am looking for is him to invite me back into "his" life and house again, slowly at first, and then hopefully on a permanent basis by the end of December.
So short-term goals, i.e. in the next 2 weeks would be:
H asks me to stay some nights of his own accord We start acting like friends again, i.e. we do some activities together out of the house H agrees to MC We make plans to spend Christmas/New Years together
I think these are realistic, and while I'd love to see more progress, these would be steps in the right direction.
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Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!