Hi Jen,

Well to measure my new plan's success...

Hmm. I guess what I am looking for is him to invite me back into "his" life and house again, slowly at first, and then hopefully on a permanent basis by the end of December.

So short-term goals, i.e. in the next 2 weeks would be:

H asks me to stay some nights of his own accord
We start acting like friends again, i.e. we do some activities together out of the house
H agrees to MC
We make plans to spend Christmas/New Years together

I think these are realistic, and while I'd love to see more progress, these would be steps in the right direction.

ITH


Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years
Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be
S 07/28/08-11/08/08
Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!