None really Everhope,

Thanks for asking. WW stayed out on Tuesday night for Melbourne Cup night and spent the night at one of her colleagues' houses. This had me really annoyed but I didn't show it.

Saw her briefly last night - caressed her head and we chatted for a bit. Then this morning she got up and left the house early and will be late coming home tonight - "watching a film" was the excuse she gave her dad.

She is definitely avoiding me and I had/have a nasty suspicion that OM is already in town. She knows that I can read her every movement and facial expression and that I can't be fooled. Yes, there'll be a reason why she doesn't want me around - usually she asks me if I want to go to the movies with her.

We shall see... No real idea how to handle this anymore. My DBing did a good job of getting her comfortable with me again and loving my company but wedding rings are still off, and I haven't had an ILY for most of this year. This M will never improve while OM is in the picture in any shape or form.


Me: 46
W: 46
T: 23
M: 20
DS12
DD11
DS5

W left: 01/28/08
Discovered OM: 02/26/08
W back for 9 days: 04/08
W returned 05/21/08
EA/PA - 01/08-07/09
W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)