Moving her from Newbees

[Clayton]

Went out for dinner and a couple of drinks (maybe a couple too many).
I pretty much told her that when I come back I want to start moving in some sort of direction.

It was not a pleasent conversation...but it boiled down to either piss or get off the pot.

I'm pretty much done with the current situation and told her that she now has 30 days to get the ball rolling (I'll be back in about 30 days). I will not be having this conversation with her again.

Since this is her decision, I will not be aiding her in any of the hard work that will need to be done to get this accomplished. She will need to organize the sale of the house and facilitate all required repairs to get it in "for sale" condition.
She will need to arrange for a mediator to faciliate the seperaton of our pensions, IRAs, mutual funds etc.

If she thinks just moving to her own apartment was the hard part, I think she is in for a suprise.

This was the first time in 12 yrs I have been very blunt with her and treated her like I would treat a contrator who was not meeting expectations on a project. Tough & firm with no room for mis-interpretation.

We won't talk for 4 weeks and I hope she has some sort of wake up call to reality. If not......well this is going forward one way or another.