HOLY SH!T!!! Your exW and OM were a pair..... How did the conversation go the following week with their "Christian" friends?
RMG... OM was a former friend. By all accounts, they seemed to have started an EA years before we broke up. OM and his wife were friends of ours as couples.
My W and I separated.... weeks later OM ditched his wife... weeks later, my W and OM were spending time together. Family freaked out so they went underground.
It was all tres-ugly. I could not handle it. Drank heavily. Discovered cocaine. Ya... it was bad. Not that the sitch wasnt bad enough... my coping mechanisms were none-existent. That made it worse.
Anyway... ya. So now the two of them are in "Ministry" together. The scarier thing is that it is all accepted. THat is the barometer of the church as I have experienced it.
Anyway... the more amazing thing is what God can do with situations such as these and people like me. Am clean and sober a few years now. Am not just getting my life back.... am getting a life better than the one I had because it is more real. Feels more honest. Thats one of the reasons I find the lack of authenticity in some church groups so... uncomfortable is the best I can say.
Anyway... a new day has arrived. My new W is amazing. Lots of good going on. Lots to be grateful for. And I seem to be gaining some recovery in my Christian Fellowship journey.
I truly believe the enemy tried to destroy me with all of this. Frankly, I think God is doing something good with it.
