I don't mean to encourage escalating, because that is never a good idea... What does it say in your degree about parenting time? Is she honoring the agreement, or does it need to be reviewed? Your kids deserve two parents. My STBX is as messed up as they come, but there is a provision in our papers for him to see the children, if he wants to. I don't think using the courts to protect yourself is a bad thing. Unpleasant and expensive, yes...and occasionally necessary. Sorry, it's the analyst in me that comes out and reviews the contractual obligations, instead of letting those pesky emotions get in the way. Good luck. Peace.
Me:44, WAW hx bi-polar H:48, hx of abuse S:22, S:19, D:16 Filed Oct 08, dismissed Filed again Jan 10, dismissed Now Piecing alter persona: SuperBoots