For the Guy with Kids and a WW Diciotto

[hopeful4her]

Thank you.

I asked her if he was aware of her being there. It was hard to understand her, but she did say that he did wave to her.

So at least her knows she is there. I told her that at least she has that.

Lis, your post kind of threw me. I didn't understand. What are your thoughts?

Part of my convo with her tonight was me letting her know that I would not want to be on any kind of machine. I would not want to die that way. I then remembered when my grandmother died. My wife was pregnant with D11. My grandmother never made it to see her first great grandchild. I was telling my wife how, at the hospital, that I was letting my grandfather know that he had to let her go. As I was remembering the story, I started to cry myself. I let her know that it was very hard to say that to him.


I just remembered. When the wife was still at her apartment packing. Her "I don't have ANYONE!" After I told her she can rely on me, she really broke down and sobbed,

"I've never had to do this, Roger!" she wailed. She gathered herself after a couple minutes. I was just wishing I could hold her. I told her that she was going to have to be strong.