After the kids were in bed, I seen her at the end of the hall and I said "..and I hope you have a good night." in a very nice tone.
She said "Ok." and then a moment later said "Thanks."
She knows she is being mean to me and all I've done is be nice to her. I'm sure that is making her more irritated.
So as of right now, things just don't look good. But who knows.. Maybe she'll figure out that this isn't what she wants. Now that she is out of my computer room I can breath a bit and it will be a lot easier for me to be here without flipping out.