Hi I had an affair and after lying about it for 3 years , I came clean and my H has left me and seems to be looking for another woman.
I would NEVER NEVER EVER go through this aagain. My advise to you is , if you feel her remorse, then start working on forgiving and make your M work. It can be stronger and better than before.
My H cannot see this in me which makes me relly really sad and sick and yuk. Please give your W another chance. Work on what made her choose that option, love her to pieces , get some council you cannot do it on your own.