Well posting the ups and downs helps us know that we are not alone. Your h always baffels me. He seems like he so wants to come home, but just can't break away.

Sorry he is struggling so. Do you think it's easier for him to drown himself in a beer rather than have to face all that he has done?

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"