That talk with OMW will be an interesting one. Make sure to let us know how it goes.
Dishes are a good start yes.
The laughing is a good sign. He must think they are ridiculous. But, again, let the lawyers deal with it. Remember, do not talk to her about any of the letters, etc. IF she starts you say, "I'm letting my lawyer deal with that. I don't want to divorce you."
Wdid, Will let all know how it goes. Not sure what she does / does not know.
My W is sick of me saying I do not want a D. Hey, I have been consistent if nothing else.
Thanks (((wdid)))
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
Love is not a place To come and go as we please It's a house we enter in And then commit to never leave
Lock the door behind you Throw away the key We'll work it out together Let it bring us to our knees
Love is a shelter in the raging storm Love is peace in the middle of a war If we try to leave, may God send His angels to guard the door No, love is not a fight but it's something worth fighting for
To some, love is a word That they can fall into But when they're falling out Keeping that word is hard to do
Love will come to save us If we'll only call He will ask nothing of us But demand we give our all
I will fight for you Would you fight for me? It's worth fighting for
The next time she does this, ask her "Why didn't you set a place for me?" and grab your own dishes. See what she says. Tell her "I would leave a place for you."
Good idea. Next time we all sit down together if the same sitch applies - will do.
OMW indicated she would be alone nezt 3 nights. She is honest (good start). OM is on the road doing hockey games. Verified on the league web site. Actually, sometimes I wasn't sure if it really was her or OM intercepting. But that would be giving him too much credit.
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
Love is not a place To come and go as we please It's a house we enter in And then commit to never leave
Lock the door behind you Throw away the key We'll work it out together Let it bring us to our knees
Love is a shelter in the raging storm Love is peace in the middle of a war If we try to leave, may God send His angels to guard the door No, love is not a fight but it's something worth fighting for
To some, love is a word That they can fall into But when they're falling out Keeping that word is hard to do
Love will come to save us If we'll only call He will ask nothing of us But demand we give our all
I will fight for you Would you fight for me? It's worth fighting for
Just stopping by to offer some support. It is good that one L would laugh at a proposal from another L. Got one in town that does not have much respect and not that smart. At work we are always happy if he is designated as the defense attorney, always pleads or we win those cases in court.
You will only go on a ride if you want to. Stay off of it and keep moving forward. Take care.
A warrior does not give up on what he loves, he finds the love in what he does
Arranged a call with OMW for tonight - will post when done but will be late.
****** Last night was playing video games with S13 (ok, was getting owned by S13 actually). W comes down.
W: S13, what are you doing? You are supposed to be going to bed. S13: Am playing games with dad since I won't see him for a couple days (see later for more on that). Good father / son time. W: I thought I said no more vid games? We talked about that. S13: you said no more x-box Live, nothing about vid games totally. W: this is not acceptable, shut it off.
S13 was getting madder, but I did say to him to listen to his mom. I also gave him a big hug before he went upstairs.
****** W and S13 are off to another city for a hockey tournament. I agreed to stay here and come later (the girls didn't want to miss school and S13 and I are off on vacation next week anyway for 6 days). So W asks when D11 and I are coming down. I said Friday. She freaks out - needs to find herself a place to stay then, D11 wants to come Sat. I say (calmly) that we had talked about me coming for the game at 5 tomorrow afternoon. She is pi$$y and says let me know so I can make arrangements. I simply respond "ok, we will let you know tonight."
******
Made coffee again this morning. (I am trying wdid, I am...)
****** This morning I am in the den and D16, S13 and W are at the kitchen table. D16 and I are talking. D16 then asks a question, and I answer. W gets pi$$y (see a pattern??).
W: why did dad answer? I was right here. D16: well I was talking to him as well. W: but I was going to answer. Didn't you make eye contact with me? D16: yeah so. How was dad to know that. Don't need to get ticked. S13: yeah mom, how was dad to know that.
What kids!
****** (Last one for now)
W asks S13 to print a couple things off on the computer. I am sitting right there so S13 says "dad, can you print..." and W stops him. W says "S13, you go do that for me." S13 says to W "why, dad is right there". I pipe in and say "S13, what is you need bud?" No problem.
Maybe just my sense, but appears the eldest two kids are getting less and less patient with this...
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
But, again, let the lawyers deal with it. Remember, do not talk to her about any of the letters, etc. IF she starts you say, "I'm letting my lawyer deal with that. I don't want to divorce you." 