That's the sad part. Most of these MLCers get what's coming to them, and more. At least, you only have to put up with this nonsense until the D is finalized, and things are settled. He has to live with his stupid choice for the rest of his life. He did this, not you. He has shown his character to be week, not you. His family seem to have the same character too.
BTW, when I say 'turn the other cheek', I in no way mean you should go out of your way to place it in front of him to slap. No, you have to be tough and kind at the same time. You are fighting not only for yourself, but for your D12 too.
Really very sad, but you can move on and find happiness for yourself.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim