2008 = Crazy Year (Screwed up 16)

[kat727]

So hard to grab an extra plate if need be, unless she puts a lock on all the cabinets. I think she is ticked because she doesn't have much to work with.

Calm and steady!

kat

[marriedCrazy]

You're doing well LIS. Stay strong with her.

[whatdidido]

DOn't forget to add that loving action every day as well. Don't go her route..sarcasm, anger, and vindictiveness. Show her you don't want this divorce, you love her...remain calm. The trick to the loving action is to make sure she knows you are sincere and not being sarcastic to her. If she makes a sarcastic comment to you, don't be sarcastic back. FOr example, say you have noticed she likes a certain kind of gum. Leave a pack for her by her purse. SHe may look at it, sigh, and leave it on the table. That's fine. She knows you were thinking of her. The Love Dare book would help you with things to do.

All the while the lawyers deal with the other crud.

[lost_in_space]

(((S&S))), (((kat))), (((wdid))) and MC (high 5?)

Hmmmmmmm. That is a toughie.

I know she will see the disc with omw as vindictive, but it has nothing to do with her. Omw has questions that are unanswered and 2 young k's at home.

I did wash dishes tonight even though I didn't eat supper. That's a start I guess...

Btw - I think my L is laughing at each of her letters - is that a good thing?

[Sugar and Spice]

Btw - I think my L is laughing at each of her letters - is that a good thing?

If another L actually prepared the letter? Then yes, that is a very good thing!

[lost_in_space]

Yup, letters are L to L.

I will keep taking them seriously, but nice to see my L reaction.

Thanks (((Corey)))

[whatdidido]

That talk with OMW will be an interesting one. Make sure to let us know how it goes.

Dishes are a good start yes.

The laughing is a good sign. He must think they are ridiculous. But, again, let the lawyers deal with it. Remember, do not talk to her about any of the letters, etc. IF she starts you say, "I'm letting my lawyer deal with that. I don't want to divorce you."

[marriedCrazy]

and MC (high 5?)

yea, that's cool....hugs from guy, maybe not...

not that there's anything wrong with that!!!

[lost_in_space]

MC

It's ok. We're

[Puppy Dog Tails]

The next time she does this, ask her "Why didn't you set a place for me?" and grab your own dishes. See what she says. Tell her "I would leave a place for you."