DOn't forget to add that loving action every day as well. Don't go her route..sarcasm, anger, and vindictiveness. Show her you don't want this divorce, you love her...remain calm. The trick to the loving action is to make sure she knows you are sincere and not being sarcastic to her. If she makes a sarcastic comment to you, don't be sarcastic back. FOr example, say you have noticed she likes a certain kind of gum. Leave a pack for her by her purse. SHe may look at it, sigh, and leave it on the table. That's fine. She knows you were thinking of her. The Love Dare book would help you with things to do.
All the while the lawyers deal with the other crud.
