BSC, it happens. PA's happen. Doesn't mean anything. It's not any different than the way she has been treating you. It's not a new level. It's the same old stuff.
And T is right - these things do not last. It is not just a story we tell ourselves to calm ourselves down. That kind of relationship does not last. You have only downside in reacting to it. There is no upside.
My wife was so hot for her guy, and after it was exposed and all of her friends and family looked at her like she was from Mars, it stopped. It was the secrecy that made it delicious. Once the scandal was gone, she gave it up.
They are all bonkers. My wife filed for divorce, lodged all sorts of false allegations. Now we are settling. She is now calling it a "nightmare." this idea of hers, her creation, her solution to all the problems, is now a nightmare.
