Chazz,

Yes, we all do end up under a pile of bricks from time to time.... It is tough... But, it is a part of the process....

As for the rebound relationships, I did have a wild fling as you described when my first serious relationship ended..... That was most therapeutic....

When Kim and I married, I was a very different man.... I felt God had called me to a higher standard... When the marriage ended... I felt if I had a fling like that again, I was not much better than my adulterous exW......

I am not trying to say I am perfect.. Far from.... But, I felt it was important to wait for my new W... For me, I did not think it is right to "try out" other women.....

Plus, I did not want Kim to be able to look at me and say... "Yeah, he is a good "Christian" guy.... Nailing all of those women.... He IS REALLY different! Right!"

Take Care,

RMG

Last edited by RMG77739; 11/05/08 11:46 PM.
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