Well, I stopped posting in the newcomers a while back because I wasn't about saving my M any longer. I still keep up with a lot of sichs though.
Short story. M in trouble at the start of the year, MC didn't help and then found out about OM, etc. After about two months of struggling, I realized that this was a done deal and over time (with my IC) I realized STBXW wasn't who she made herself out to be. She's a chameleon and she's doing it with OM.
Over the summer/fall I've really changed (for the better). I'm cooking, cleaning, being the single dad (about 70%), lost 60lbs this year (won $1K in a weight loss contest), met someone new and have been dating her for 3+ months. So 2008, has been an interesting year to say the least.
The one thing I struggle with as the D gets closer to being finalized is the actually finality of it. Almost a feeling a failure and sometimes no matter how good other things are going in my life, this brings me down. Does this feeling eventually disappear for good over time? Any veterans have advice on this?
M 35 W 28 D 4
Bomb 4/28/08 Found out about PA 05/14/08 Separated 5/25/08 (not legally)
