Do Something DIFFERENT

[Laurie]

Dear JoJo,
You have really dedicated yourself to this new pattern and that takes a lot of focus and commitment!!!

As I read your last post, I have a question over some of these points, JoJo:

.) Why aren't I appealing to 'A' anymore?
2.) What can I do now to capture his interest again?
3.) What did I used to do?
a.) I don't think I did anything differently.
b.) I think he just thought I was a more independent person
c.) He thought I was more goal oriented and career oriented
d.) I think he wanted to believe it.
e.) In fact, I was looking to be settled

When you list in 3a that you don't think you did anything differently, but then in 3b, 3c, and 3d that he somehow perceived you differently, what was going on that helped cause him to think that way? Can you explore that with me a bit?

By the way, I am also glad your parents are doing better, JoJo.