You have been around, you have been there for her and she treats you badly. She knows you have this connection and that you know each other sooo well. Let her have a chance to miss it. This will also put the spotlight on the OM and your wife will finally start to see his flaws.
This is a hard path to follow, but I have alot of faith in you.
kat
H4H...you and I would probably both do well to follow this advice. We never give them a chance to miss us. We are "fixers" as well.
Stay strong and you are doing the right thing. Now I just need to do the same.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
