It seems to me that he is using the baby as an excuse to extend his gambling behavior, in a way. Since he can't (won't) decide anything until the baby is born (for no good reason that I can think of), he can keep gambling! It takes a pretty clever mind to come up with that! So, I've got to give hime clever. I'd have to think that if he really wants to come back, he takes real steps to stop the gambling, cut ties with the OW, and acts like he want to come back. So, it seems to me, that for the time being, coming back is not his priority. Maybe when the baby is born that changes, from here I don't see it. No expectations. I hope I'm wrong!
