Hope - you are probably right! He may be so curious that he will call you anyway...

I need to get that book....I will have to go buy it this weekend since Friday is payday...

Not sure if any of those plans would work for me at this point with my H set on D. But it doesn't hurt to keep reading and educating myself right? In the long run, if we are not meant to be then at least I can take what I have learned into my next relationship and make it better.

Me35/H35
D16/SS14
M-1yr/known H 18yrs
1st Bomb: 4/26 OW35
2nd Bomb: 8/17 OW21
Moved out 8/21/08
H filed D on 9/9/08

God determines who walks into your life...it's up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.