Faith - wow our H's sound exactly the same. Every time the job got tough he would quit and tell me about the next best thing he was going to do and how it was going to take us to the next level. I always believed him and now its hard to believe anything he has to say because looking back everything he wanted to do was for himself and no one else. I know he loves his kids more than his own life, he just doesn't know how to show it. He thinks that by telling them he loves them is enough. He doesn't really show them like a true father would.
He always told me he would never jeopardize our relationship because of how great it was. He would say it was not worth it at all to cheat when he had a wonderful woman like me. I remember those words very clearly and now it was hard for me even to type it in this message.
Hope - I'm sorry you had to endure that. I couldn't imagine sitting there the way you did. You are so strong and powerful!! It's ok that you said to call you just don't have any expectations that he will. I wouldn't send the text just wait and see. If he does then he truly wanted to talk to you, if he doesn't he may not be ready to talk. Remember no chasing according to T2L!!
I will wait and see how long it takes for my H to contact me again. I'm betting it will be this weekend when he knows that I will be at that party.
Me35/H35 D16/SS14 M-1yr/known H 18yrs 1st Bomb: 4/26 OW35 2nd Bomb: 8/17 OW21 Moved out 8/21/08 H filed D on 9/9/08
God determines who walks into your life...it's up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.
