I used to have panic attacks.....but I'm pretty much over that now. Those stopped around 3mths after the seperation. I'm almost at mth 6 now.
I have been catching up with W about once a week since the bomb and we have been the best of friends. Still haven't talked about relationship, seperation, divorce or our past at all. The only heavy stuff is about finances since we still share accounts, mortgage etc.
I'm off next week for a month so she is coming over tonight for dinner and I'm going to give her a list of stuff she needs to take care of while I'm away. I'm thinking of broaching the subject of what she wants to do moving forward. I would like to know what her thoughts are so I know what I will be coming back to after my vacation.
At this point....I don't know if I really care either way...I just want to start moving in some sort of direction.
H - 39 W - 38 M - 10 years, Dated 1 LYBNILWY - 5/17/2008 Moved out - 5/18/08 no kids - 2 cats
