sorry to be so short BSC. Remeber emotions + decisions = not good.
Do you know for sure? Your imagination will take you to places that are not real.
The general rule is NOT to do anything for a while. Take time to calm down. remenber act as if for now. Watch your tone of voice, body language,expressions.
Let things play out for a few days. This happens a lot and it sucks big time. I'm sorry. Lots of others going throught it and making it work. You have a few questions to ask yourself and think about if it is true.
I posted to Jeff about this as well. I wish I had more time but I got to get back to work. I'll be dropping back in as soon as I get home.