He used to teach and he also led the music worship for years at our church.
But he is also human, which means he has a sin nature.
For a long time during the crisis he made fun of me for taking the kids to church.
At other times he would tell me that I was not at all concerned about their Spirituality.
My Husband basically turned his back on God, and my prayers were daily.
I would pray that the Lord would soften his heart and remove the scales that blinded him.
And when I reached a point of having no more words to pray, I would read the POPW which really helped me to stay focused.
After many years, he did finally come home and is again worshiping and praying.
IRMAT, by the way, I only used the example of praying for something bad to happen to OW, as basically an axample. I would never think for a minute that that was what you are doing.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.