Thank you KerryK. I agree. My W is on a mission to make my life miserable. Presently, her MO is to point out all my hypocrosies...and make me appear to be a liar and a hypocrite:
-she slept with the kids for months....she is now on a search and destroy to catch me sleeping with them (they come downstairs sometimes in the middle of the night..but...less so)
-she has locked the dog out in inclement weather for hours and consistently. Last night I let him out to pee and, having been up since 5 am, I passed out on the couch. SHE TEXTED ME FROM UPSTAIRS AT 1245AM to let the dog in and requoted what I said to her.

She just can't let go of anger, vindictiveness..and is on a mission to punish me and discredit me as a human being.

Last meeting with my L....I finally asked her if I could leave....that my W was making life miserable. She told me 'no'...that those are the D's here in NY that go on forever (when you leave, you must pay support for them...they like it...and they drag it out. By staying in the house, it forces a settlement, etc).

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;