Sorry Jen will respond to your post later and I really appreciate it, but right now just have to say WTH???? Getting IMd from H as I type...

We were joking around, then he says "ur cute". Then he calls me "silly billy", another nickname...then asks could we really afford to go to Morocco for Xmas?????

Truth is if he moves out, the answer is no, but if he doesn't, I will definitely make it work. So, I just said that I would let him know what my bonus was going to be...

I just don't know what happened, and I know well enough now to know that one positive gesture doesn't mean a change of heart, but I guess there are a few things that may have contributed to this.

Maybe it's my new strategy already? Maybe it was me not being home, and moreover my email saying I wouldn't stop him from moving out?

Anyway I do know this is a rollercoaster, so I will try not to pin too many hopes on this, but in any case at least it is nice to get something positive...

ITH

Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years
Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be
S 07/28/08-11/08/08
Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!