My 29 year old wife going through MLC, this sucks

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Lots of crap going on here. After 5 months of only talking, W starting working out with EA/OM again last night. Just what I needed. But I can't stop her from making bad decisions. When she texted me I was real mad and upset but by the time she got home I just left and went to the gym myself. Then when I got home from the gym I was calm as can be and even laughed and joked around.

Then today she lied to me and it is too personal to share on this site, but the long and the short is that I can't account for some of her time and I am about 65% sure that she is now having a PA. But i can't prove it and really what is the point. I was able to put on the best face I could when she got home. But she did call me to ask me something and was nice as pie. Probably from the guilt, and she asked me why I was acting funny. I just said I wasn't and that I am fine and ended the call. Otherwise I might say too much.

I know there has always been the possibility of PA but I just don't know how I am going to handle it if it is true. I keep practicing the conversation over and over to get ready.

I do have another question though. As I have stated, she will be sleeping in our bed for three days this weekend when my family comes. I was thinking of saying something like this to her before hand. "I know this weekend may be unfcomfortable with the sleeping arangments but I want you to know I have no intentions of coming onto to you in a sexual way. Lets just take it for what it is and try to get our rest. Just keep in mind that we will be close and if I accidentally touch or brush you at night it is just that an accident"

I know she is a little leary of us being in the bed together because of the sexual tension. Assuming she is only helping herself and no OM then we are both itching for it if you know what I mean. When she was angry and we were still in the same bed she would get mad if I touched her and kick my leg away and such. But right now she is not in that angry place but I thought I should address it.

Thoughts please anyone. Thank you