Honey I have no idea. My H said if he moved out, he would probably call me every day and talk for hours. But he doesn't want to talk now. Just makes no sense but that is because of the fog I guess. Either that, or they want to move on but really can't deal with the thought of being without us.
Like I want to be H's best friend or even close if I'm not his wife. I am in love with the man, I do not want a platonic friendship with him. I wouldn't have married him if that was the case.
If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.