Thanks guys and gals. I think I knew the answer, but I'm still new at this.

I want to let her know that I do care, but at the same time I realize it's her that needs to figure things out, not me. I know what I want and I'm willing to work on it. It's up to her to figure that out for herself.

You're right Kat, it isn't what I wanted to hear, but it is what I needed to hear. I suppose that's just me still needing some form of validation.

Didi, I have read a lot of your posts and I realize that you were in somewhat the same position as my WAW. What turned you around? If you don't mind me asking. What did your H do that made you want to try again? How long did he have to wait?

I'm just so impatient, it's something I really have to work on. I'm a problem solver and normally it doesn't take me long to figure things out, but I have to admit, I'm a lost ball in high weeds here.

Thanks again for your input everyone, it really does mean a lot to me and helps me see things more clearly.

MC, I just realized a couple of days ago that you and I are both KY boys. Go Big Blue!! (I hope you're not a Louisville fan). I'm not really a big sports fan, but most people in KY are big Wildcat fans.

Dash


Me 43: Her 34
M 08/22/2005
Son born 12/31/2006
Suspicion of EA 10/10/2008
EA confirmed 10/11/2008
WAW 10/13/2008