You have been around, you have been there for her and she treats you badly. She knows you have this connection and that you know each other sooo well. Let her have a chance to miss it. This will also put the spotlight on the OM and your wife will finally start to see his flaws.

This is a hard path to follow, but I have alot of faith in you.

kat

Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory